I haven’t had a lot of relationships but I certainly have learned a lot from the ones I’ve had. I didn’t think very much of myself for a long time. Since I didn’t think I was worth much, I attracted two husbands who didn’t think so either.
I came to realize that I had no experience dating and having fun with men without thinking it had to be serious. I worked with men and had lots of guy friends but I’d never played with them in a romantic way. I also knew that I needed to be the woman who would attract the guy who met the criteria on my “list”.
Thus began a study in self-improvement and self-appreciation that continues to this day.